Tuesday 4 October 2016

FRIENDSHIP AND PRINCIPLE

Sister Victoire Niyonzima, MSOLA

It was on Wednesday last week that Lavigerie community was privileged by the visit of Sr. Victoire of the Missionary Sisters of Our Lady of Africa (MSOLA). It was such an enthralling occasion that the students had a chat with her soon after the common evening prayer, a chat that some members described as extra-ordinary, explicable by no terminology yet essentially noticeable by an unalloyed attention by the audience. It was such a joyful moment that one could not be reminded of a section of this academic year’s community project, ‘actively present’/listening community per se! I could sense that we are not just living the community project in Platonic form/idea; we are actually living to it aristocratically!

In order to be at par with protocol, it will be necessary to have a brief knowledge of who Sr. Victoire is. She is a Burundian by nationality who joined the MSOLA family way back in 1993. This is 23 years down the road. She has had a wide missionary experience, and she is currently a co–superior in the Entity of Eastern Africa Province and presently based in Nairobi. Being curious to know about her vocation, she only smiled and said that her vocation was a mysterious one, a thing she had never expected in her life. Of course everyone’s vocation is a mystery, but Sr. Victoires’ was mysterious in that her anxious fear turned into a feast! It was a feast in that; the family was not a hindrance to the call to preach the Good News about the imminent Kingdom of God. She significantly appreciates the role of her family in her vocation even amidst difficult moments in her life. In fact, “it is in difficult moments that we should see God more,” she said. To her, the MSOLA community members have further been a motivation in her missionary life. 

Being a community of 29, each one of us could make his own detailed account of this precious encounter with Sr. Victoire based on what inspired him. In these few, lines I would like to re-echo two aspects that sister shared with us namely, friendship and principle. I hope this will rekindle in us something new. I know many have written, others are writing and some will be writing Essays on friendship. However, I beg that at this point of departure we keep Aristotle and principles of science in philosophy in the fridge. Sr. Victoire spoke about the role of friendship. She said that friendship is a way of building the Kingdom of God. Without friendship, there is no love and without love, there is no God because God is love. In fact, friendship should help us in community life. It adds value to the quality of life in the community. We should remember the words of Jesus, “I call you friends because I have made known to you everything I learnt from my Father.” Outstandingly, sister informed the audience that in addition to friendship, we need principles. These principles should help us discern the kind of friendship we are involved in; they should be the light to remind us of the boundaries of friendship because some friendships may not necessarily lead us to the choices we are undertaking. We have to be aware that the choice we are making is not an easy one, but it is the best!


Longoli Michael