Formation
Metaphysically, every being is in a state
of potency. It has the capacity to receive perfections, that is, attributes or
characteristics or qualities.
My experience of formation with the missionaries
of Africa has proved that you can learn a lot more things during formation in
its pillars of spiritual life, pastoral life, community life, human formation
and academic life. One has to be open and ready to allow himself to be formed
so as to fit and operate within the systems of the missionaries of Africa.
My three years of formation has taught me that I should allow God to mold me
and the life of our risen Lord Jesus Christ should be one’s ultimate motivator.
One should be motivated by love not by self interest. One’s motivations are
important in opening oneself to grow and develop in the different pillars
mentioned above. I have learnt that one takes the highest responsibility in his
own formation.
The formators and other students are there to offer guidance and
help to direct you develop yourself in the mentioned areas of your life.
Sometimes, formators may impose on you what they think would be right and yet
you find it not helpful to aid your growth. This is where formation becomes
challenging. You may either be forced to conform to what the formator wants or
refute it and continue doing what is visibly of help to you. The formator may
end up calling you disobedient. Remember, you know what motivates you. The
formators have their own motivations and the way they think formation should
be. They have different personalities and interest, abilities, talents and
knowledge. As a student it is important to understand and know who your formator
is so that you can open up yourself for growth.
Formation entails
that you first of all have some knowledge of who you are. This will help you to
know your strengths and weakness and then cooperate with your formators on how
best to maintain and develop your strengths and how to work on your weakness
for your own benefit and the society as a whole. It is true that formation can
sometimes be tough and you wonder whether you are in the right place or not. In
most cases these moments are short lived. One takes the highest
responsibility in his formation and the formators are only guides in one’s life
journey.
I conclude by summarizing formation with the example of a child whose
teeth are starting to grow. The child cries and feels some pain, but after the
teeth have grown, the children can eat anything using the teeth as it becomes
strong. Formation has sometimes been hard, but mostly interesting and enriching
as it adds value to ones life as a disciple of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Lematian Brian Aliti