Interview with Fr. Gaetan
Fr. Gaetan is one of the
formators who has been in Lavigerie house for the past two years. Here is the interview Lavigerie Drum had with
him about his experience and life in Lavigerie house.
AUSTINE: Could you please tell us about yourself and your background?
FR.GAETAN: I am Gaetan BAWENDSOM
TIENDREBEOGO from Burkina-Faso, first born of 5 children (1 girl and 4 boys).
My family lives in Bobo-Dioulasso where I grew up and studied. I was born in
water and spirit in 1979. Bawendsom means “Seek the goodness of God” and
Tiendrebego is literally translated “Hope in tomorrow or the future”. I like my
name and carry it as a mission.
AUSTINE: We would also be glad to hear about your vocation journey and
your missionary experience to this day.
FR. GAETAN: I was attracted by the
call of Abraham to leave his country and his people to follow God. This touched
me very much as a first born who loved and loves his family very much and
wanted to go and bring the Good News to others in Africa who did not hear yet
of Christ. The intercultural community life of the Missionaries of Africa also
captured my attention. It is no surprise that I started my missionary journey
in 2000. I was ordained on the 10th
of July 2010 and appointed to Khartoum, Sudan but was first sent for Arabic and Islamic studies in Egypt. I finished these studies in June 2011 and never got
the visa for Khartoum. I thus started a pilgrimage from the end of the Nile to
its source passing through the Land of the highest peak in Africa. God
had for me the blessing of the land of the Ugandan martyrs, which never crossed
my mind as a possible destination or crossroad of my missionary journey. My
groaning for the gates of Khartoum to be opened for my triumphal entering is
lost along with its despair. The harvest is abundant and global.
This is, indeed, another lesson for my bird’s brain : we never get
stuck with the Lord of surprises.
Talking of missionary experience
some people worry, saying “This wanderer has
never been in mission”. I guess God’s answer beats mine: “This is my new
Abraham, a wanderer for the Kingdom”. I had been asking God for a sign to
confirm my call. He did after my ordination. All that I have been through since
2011 is part of that sign. I told Him recently “Lord its enough now stop
playing.” Moreover, if mission was the sole privilege of clerics I would
accommodate better their concern. But mission is a prophetic role of all the
baptized. I did much before joining the Missionaries of Africa apart from
administering sacraments. A great part of my formation was a missionary
experience. I have been shaped by the situation of the internally displaced
Sudanese in the North, the conflicts between the North and South Sudan, the war
in Darfur, the Palestinian conflict, the revolution in Egypt, the political
situations in the Middle East and the interfaith relations in all these
countries. All these experiences shaped me tremendously and I hope you are benefiting from their fruits today in
Lavigerie House.
AUSTINE: Let’s come to some practical issues; the formation of
Missionaries, Missionaries of Africa in particular is considerably long. What
is your take on this issue?
FR.GAETAN: Looking at all the
challenges of the present age some
people would probably agree to prolong the formation of one or two more years
to make sure the young men mature enough. Our society of the missionaries of
Africa trusts that our formation programme is well designed to prepare efficiently
enough the candidates holistically, and offer enough time of discernment to
each one. It’s a lifelong commitment, so we have to think it over and over again and be prepared for
its journey. Considering the seriousness
of the matter, our programme “est semper reformanda”-always being
improved. Looking around, our formation
is relatively the same as the one of the some other missionary congregations.
The Jesuits may even reach 15 years before ordination!
AUSTINE: What word of wisdom would you pass to the young men in
formation in the footsteps of Cardinal Lavigerie?
FR.GAETAN: A word of wisdom from
Christ: Remain in me as I remain in you and you will bear fruits in plenty
(John 15:7). Another from Lavigerie: “Be apostles and nothing but apostles”.
The apostles were not supermen, they were human beings, strong and vulnerable,
but who put their trust in God and learnt to let go in Him. Use all the
opportunities offered to form yourself into being a trustworthy and mature
person on whom society can count on.
Intellectual sloth and taking life for granted are generally the
pitfalls many find themselves in. Work never kills, but helps us to be talented
and fulfilled and fulfilling people. Remember: If you knew it all or had it all,
formation wouldn’t be needed.
Die from Ego the serpent
Don’t allow
yourself to him relent
Be tilled like the
soil
Don’t allow yourself your Ego to spoil
AUSTINE: Any last word you would like to say?
FR.GAETAN: I am very happy being with you here
and we continue the journey together as a community of believers, brothers and
formation. I am very happy in our community of formators and grateful to
Patrick and Martin who are leaving the boat. With Hans my oldest companion,
Arsène and hopefully Yago la lutta continua, the struggle
continues. I am happy to stay some more
with you all and prepare yourself for an interesting and challenging time
together. We have no privilege to give up on ourselves and our brothers and
sisters of Africa particularly. Together for our dream! Yes we Can! In
Jesus; Yes we can! Alleluia; Yes we can. Amen!